Author Archive: Melissa Kaplan

Lake Atitlan: A Little Slice of Paradise

Let’s keep it real here: when I first booked my flight to Guatemala to visit friends last month, it was really Lake Atitlan—that beautiful, deep blue, volcano-ringed lake of a million postcards—that I was most excited about seeing.  Sure, there were other parts of the country that interested me (and plenty I didn’t get to see that I’d like to come back to visit in the future) but that magical natural wonder was my main enticement when I hopped on the plane.  It looked so perfect in every photo I saw; every blog and guidebook sang its praises to the skies.  I was certain I was going to love it.

And I’m happy to say it did not disappoint.

Guatemala docks

When I think of Guatemala, I think of Lake Atitlan and the unique group of towns that surround it.  I remember how beautiful the sunsets were, how dramatic the coastline’s silhouette appeared (more lakes need to be ringed by volcanoes in my opinion), and the overall feeling of being in the presence of so much beauty.  It felt like life moved at a slower pace there, like it was a place you could just relax and take in at your leisure.

I love Lake Atitlan so much that I’ve already nearly managed to erase from memory the terrifying boat ride we endured from Santiago to another town across the lake, which was one of the scarier experiences I’ve ever had on the water.  But never mind, we arrived safely and celebrated our arrival on dry land with lunch at an Irish expat bar, so no permanent harm done.

And other than that, my memories of the lake are pretty much perfect: the small towns with the smiling children scampering up to greet us (including one who acted as an impromptu tour guide to help us to the beach); the flowers blooming against the backdrop of dark blue water and sky; watching the clouds drift over the volcanoes in the distance as we bobbed over the water on the small boats that carry locals and tourists alike from town to town.

Guatemala santiago view

And of course, one never-to-be-forgotten highlight was our afternoon at Club Ven Aca in the charming little town of Jaibalito, where we ate lunch, ordered tropical drinks, and swam in a (very cold) infinity pool looking out over the lake’s stunning vista.  (A photo of me in said pool may or may not now be serving as my facebook profile photo.  Okay, fine, it is).

Guatemala club ven aca

There are so many places in the world I love because they’re bustling, exciting, full of art and culture and one-of-a-kind monuments and sights.  Lake Atitlan, on the other hand, is a place I fell in love with simply for its beauty; for the sense that here, life can be lived with an appreciation for all that nature has to offer us, and a desire to soak up every moment without rushing on to the next.  As our world becomes smaller and more connected, and often more hectic and stressful, this can be a rare quality, and it’s definitely one that I appreciate more and more as I move through life.

If I return to Guatemala someday, I’ll definitely hit up some new places I didn’t get to visit this time (Tikal and Semuc Champey are at the top of that list).  But I will absolutely, positively return to Lake Atitlan, explore more, and experience once again the beauty of a place that stole my heart without even trying, but simply by being.

Have you been to Lake Atitlan?  Did you love it too?  What other places in Guatemala did you enjoy?

Dreaming of Slow(er) Travel

A few days ago, I was emailing my best friend about a trip we’re hoping to take together in the fall.  As our conversation continued, it expanded beyond the immediate trip planning details as we began catching up on the latest happenings in one another’s lives.  Soon, I was putting onto paper (or email) something I hadn’t yet written or shared anywhere else: the fact that lately, I’ve been dreaming more and more about a long, slow, unrushed trip to a completely new destination.

I think I am ready for some slow travel.

As I’ve written before, most of my trips in the past, even overseas, have been brief—maybe a week if I’m lucky, or a long weekend if that’s all the vacation time I can muster.  I’ve been in Turkey for four days, Argentina for five, Iceland for three.  I managed to eke out six days in Thailand last year, which by my standards was close to an epic journey.

Phuket view

In the past, I never thought much of this.  I just figured I was using my precious vacation days to get as far as I could as fast as I could.  If I didn’t get to stay long enough to really get to know a place, soak it up, and come away better understanding its nuances and what makes it tick—well, at least I’d seen it and could check it off my bucket list, right?

It wasn’t that I was averse to longer trips; like most people, I’ve just never had both the time and money simultaneously to enable me to take one.  When I was working, I had to be mindful of vacation days (and the pressure of trying to see as much of the world as I could with those weeks every year, which often meant long  plane flights a few times a year in totally different directions).  When I wasn’t working, I was usually either a broke student or looking for a job, so while I might have time on my side for a leisurely exploration of a new corner of the planet, I didn’t have the money or freedom to just take off.  The stars never quite aligned for me to indulge in long-term journeys.

Italy Positano

Lately, however, I’ve been really thinking about my life as a traveler, and what I want to get out of it.  And reading a ton of travel blogs written by serial expats and globe-trotting nomads has impacted me too.  Yes, I live a very different life than these people do; I don’t have the luxury of just taking a six-month leave from my job to go explore a new continent.  And yet…the older I get, the more I see the value in that kind of leisurely exploration.  I want to travel farther, sit myself down in a new corner of the globe, and stay awhile.

So this is my new travel dream.  But how to make it happen?

Truthfully, I’m not 100 percent sure.  I know I have no plans to quit my job, pack a backpack and book a one-way flight to Bangkok anytime soon.  I love my job, I love the city where I live, and I’m not interested in the backpacker circuit anymore.

But I still believe that, if I want something badly enough, I can find a way to make it happen (see moving to DC, living in Prague, studying in London, visiting 30 countries as proof).  When I set my mind to achieving something (especially something travel-related), I have a pretty good track record.

In a perfect world, I’d love to take a two-month trip: one month in Southeast Asia (where I’d explore countries like Vietnam, Cambodia, Laos, Singapore, Hong Kong, and more of Thailand), and another month split between Australia and New Zealand (Sydney, Queensland, the Great Barrier Reef, Wellington, Queenstown, Wanaka, and other places on the South Island).  I figure these places are all close enough to one another to make a long trip to explore them all at once seem feasible, and Southeast Asia seems like a perfect slow-travel destination (inexpensive, beautiful, fascinating culture, great food, and yoga opportunities apparently abound).

thailand massage cookies  Thailand buddhas

Realistically though, I may have to choose one or the other—a tough proposition, as Southeast Asia, Australia, and New Zealand all sit right at the top of my bucket list!  But in all honesty, even a month and a chance to explore one or the other location at a fairly leisurely pace would be a welcome change.  And one month might well be feasible.  Maybe I can bunch my vacation time together, or take advantage of the next time I begin a new job to carve out some free time in between to go traveling.

In any case, as I told my friend, this idea has taken hold of me and won’t seem to let go.  It’s not something I expect to happen this year, but it’s firmly in place as a medium-term travel goal: maybe 2017, or 2018, or whenever I can figure out a way to combine slow travel with an often busy life.

Because no matter how difficult the logistics may be, I truly believe that the opportunity to slow down and see a country or region at a pace that’s less than rapid-fire will be well worth the effort.  And I think that for me, the ultimate weekend-break type traveler, the time for slow travel has finally arrived.

Have you ever taken a months-long journey?  Do you love slow travel?  Any suggestions or advice for me?

 

 

Why I Love Washington, DC

A few days ago, I did something I almost never do: struck up a conversation with a stranger sitting next to me on a park bench.  As an introvert, this is a rare occurrence for me.  To give you some context, he was reading a copy of Eat, Pray, Love and I’ve been thinking of picking it up before my planned trip to Bali later this year.  (Verdict: after his enthusiastic recommendation, I’ll definitely be adding it to my Amazon cart!)

We began chatting and I soon learned he was in town from Florida and visiting my adopted hometown of Washington, DC for the first time.   I told him that my parents live in Florida and I love it; it’s a beautiful place, especially the Gulf Coast.  His response surprised me.

“I like it much better here,” he said, gesturing out at all the picnickers and office workers enjoying their lunches outside in Farragut Square on the first really nice spring day of the year.  “I mean, look at this.  Florida doesn’t have these kind of outdoor spaces.  This is a great city!”

DC capitol

And you know what?  He’s absolutely right.

I’m a New Englander by birth, but I’ve lived in DC (or technically, just outside of it) and worked in the city on and off for over a decade.  I’ve now been back for six years, and I think it’s pretty clear that this is the place I’m going to stay.  Partly this is because I work in the public policy field; there’s really no other place I could do my job than right here.  But my new park bench friend was right; DC is a fantastic city, and one I don’t think always gets the credit it deserves.

As I’ve begun my journey as a travel blogger, I’ve also broadened the scope of travel blogs I read regularly.  One trend I’ve noticed is that a lot of bloggers write not only about their travels, but also feature the highlights of the place they live: home state, adopted city, expat country.  But I’ve come across very little writing about Washington so far in the travel blog universe.  It mostly features in bloggers’ stories as the place they lived and worked at a boring entry-level job for a few months before they could break free and begin their round-the-world adventure and launch into their “real” travel.

DC sculpture garden fountain

Of course, DC does get a multitude of tourists every year (especially during cherry blossom season, when the metro magically starts running on time during the weekend).  Clearly, lots of people come here and enjoy the city.  But I feel like for most first-timers, a trip to DC means two things: monuments and museums.  Spend a day in the Smithsonion at the Natural History and Air and Space Museums; gawk at the White House and get a picture from outside the gate; do a nighttime tour of the Lincoln, Jefferson, and Vietnam memorials, and you’re all set, right?

These are all great attractions and I completely understand why first-time visitors would have them at the top of their must-see list.  But there is so much more to DC than this!

DC georgetown houses

DC is a city full of some of the smartest, most interesting people I’ve ever been fortunate enough to meet.  People who live here long-term often arrive from other parts of the country and all around the globe, drawn by the type of professional, personal, and cultural opportunities that only exist in the nation’s capital.  This mix of people makes for a really interesting social scene; meet anyone at happy hour and they’re likely to regale you with stories of their time in the Peace Corps or their current projects at a think tank or their job within the U.S. government.  And only in DC can you subscribe to an email newsletter that keeps you up to date on the latest embassy receptions and cultural events.

Kennedy Center

Kennedy Center

 

But as much as DC is heaven for politics and international affairs junkies (like me), it offers so much more that first-time visitors may not realize is here.  Art museums and galleries galore.  Amazing restaurants offering every kind of cuisine you could ever want.  Charming neighborhoods full of shops, cafes, and glorious architecture.  And, as my friend pointed out, beautiful open spaces where people can hang out on a sunny day and just take it all in.

So…all of this praise of my adopted  hometown is by way of saying that I’ve decided to expand my blog’s focus a bit to include more content on DC.  I’ll still write primarily about my travels, but there are also great things right here at home that I’d love to share with readers (and plenty of things I have yet to cross off my own bucket list, so maybe this will give me a bit of inspiration!)

Expect more DC-related blog pieces over the next few weeks and months, as the city launches into springtime, aka Cherry Blossom Festival season, which is probably the best time to visit.  I hope to keep posting about DC and my adventures here as the year goes on.  Because as much as I love to travel and see the world, on a typical weekend, this is where you’ll find me.  And seriously, how lucky am I to be able to say that?

Have you visited DC (or do you live here?) What do you think of the city?  Any recommendations to share?

What I Love About Antigua

When I began planning my trip to Guatemala, my wanderlust-filled mind was consumed with visions of a single destination: Lake Atitlan.  The volcanoes!  The lake!  The flowers ringing the pretty towns lining the shore!  Although there were other places I would have liked to see if I had more time, Lake Atitlan was my primary destination in Guatemala, and definitely the one I was most excited about.

But as we figured out our itinerary for a brief five-day visit, my friends and I decided that a night in Antigua made sense to kick off our time in the country.  It was close to the airport, we could see the highlights in a day, and it would be a good introduction to Guatemala.

Guatemala antigua arch

And I must say, I ended up really, really enjoying Antigua.  It’s a beautiful city that I highly recommend anyone visiting Guatemala spend some time exploring.

So what made Antigua such a great first stop on our Guatemalan adventure?

Guatemala mercado cathedral

My Favorite Things About Antigua

  • The architecture. Antigua is a visually stunning city, filled with colonial-style architecture that is delightful to explore and makes for loads of great photo opportunities.  My personal favorites are the famous Arch, which seems to find its way into everyone’s Antigua photos (and functions as a helpful navigational tool as well; we may have gotten lost several times while wandering Antigua’s cobbled streets!).  I also really loved the town’s cathedral.

 

  • The Parque Central. This lovely green space functions as a gathering spot for locals and tourists alike, with everyone gathering on the beautiful sunny afternoon we visited to sit on park benches, people watch, take in the magnificent buildings, and of course, eat.  It’s a really nice respite in the center of the city.

 

  • The Convento de Capuchinas. This convent was damaged by earthquakes but restored so that now you can walk around and get a sense of what life was like for the nuns who resided there centuries ago, even looking into the remains of the eighteen nun’s rooms built in a circle on the patio.  Bonus: there were loads of gorgeous flowers blooming all around the convent; some of my favorite photos of my trip were snapped here.

 Guatemala convent flowers 2   Guatemala convent flowers

  • Everything’s Yellow! Well, not everything, but when I think about Antigua, I think of yellow: the yellow of the arch, of the buildings sprinkled throughout the streets, of the bright sunlight that bathed the city in a morning or afternoon glow.  It’s a bright, cheerful place, and I think the color affects the vibe and impacted my mood when I was there.

 

  • The Food. Before arriving in Guatemala, we were told not to get too excited about the food, but that Antigua was the best place to get really good international cuisine.  It was true; while Panajachel’s food was better than I had expected, Antigua is Guatemala’s culinary star.  We didn’t have much time to eat there (sadly) but my favorite meal was our dinner at Luna de Miel, a restaurant serving every kind of sweet and savory crepe you can imagine.  I went with the chicken, avocado, and cheese crepe and it was hands-down the best meal of my trip (and began my tradition of eating avocados every day—something I’d like to make a regular habit even now that I’m back home!)

 

Have you been to Antigua?  What did you think of it?  What were your favorite places?

The Best Reason to Travel Solo

Lately, it seems like everywhere you look you’ll find a travel blogger (or a traveler) proclaiming that solo travel is the best experience a person can have.  Its benefits are described in breathless detail:  the independence!  The freedom!  You can lie on a beach all day, get up early, sleep in, hit every museum, eat whatever and wherever you please!  You’ll meet so many amazing people on the road!  You’ll learn to be self-reliant and gain boundless confidence that will spill over into every area of your life!

I’m not here to pop that bubble.  It’s entirely possible that, if you choose to travel solo—whether for six months in Southeast Asia or for a long weekend in Iceland—that all of the above will turn out to be true for you.  Solo travel might very well be the greatest experience of your life, for all these reasons and more.

Greece Santorini

However, in all honesty, solo travel isn’t my favorite way to explore the world.  While I’ve done plenty of solo trips (Iceland, Turkey, Argentina, Poland, South Africa, Denmark, Portugal) and enjoyed every one of them, I prefer to travel with friends, family, and companions whenever I can.  I just find travel more enjoyable when I have someone to share both the highs (the beautiful beaches of Thailand!) and the lows (seven-hour layovers in Dubai following a thirteen-hour flight).

In my “regular” life at home, I have no problem doing things by myself; I pride myself on being exceptionally independent (perhaps too much so at times).  I’m the girl who can happily visit a museum solo, while away hours on my own in a market or bookstore, and spend entire afternoons sitting in coffeeshops reading or scrolling through my favorite travel blogs and have a fantastic time.  But for some reason, as much as I value my alone time, things feel a bit different when I’m exploring a new city or country, and what I want out of travel is often different than what I want out of my day-to-day life.

And yet, despite all these qualifiers, I’m here to tell you something: there is a very good reason to take at least one solo trip in your lifetime, and it’s probably not the one you’ve heard from other travel bloggers or world nomads.

Iceland waterfall

The Best Reason to Travel Solo

So what’s the best reason to travel by yourself? In my opinion, it’s this:

Because there is almost certainly one trip, one voyage, one adventure that you will only be able to make happen if you go by yourself.

Maybe you have a spouse or best friend who loves to travel and is up for going anywhere you want, any time you’re ready.  If so, that’s fantastic!

But for many of us, when it comes to travel, life too often gets in the way.  And even though most avid travelers do their utmost to keep travel a high priority, most of us can’t always do it as much as we’d like, and don’t have the flexibility to hop on any potential trip at a moment’s notice.  Travel takes planning.  And sometimes, the best-planned trips may not work out as you’d hoped.

Croatia

I’m guessing that if you’re like me, there’s at least one place in the world you really, really want to see…a place that keeps popping up in your dreams, that jumps out at you from your Instagram feed daily, that you want to visit above all others.  Maybe it’s China; maybe it’s London; maybe it’s Peru; who knows.  But there’s one place that has a hold on you and won’t let go.

You owe it to yourself to see that place.  And realistically, going there solo might be the only way to do it.

Maybe your husband isn’t interested in going with you to Paris, or your best friend really doesn’t see the appeal of trekking in Nepal.  Maybe your sister would love to visit Greece with you, but she can’t get the time off work and you’ve just found an amazing flight deal that works perfectly for your schedule and isn’t going to last long.

You have two choices:  sigh with resignation and pull the plug on your cherished trip because you don’t have anyone to keep you company; or make the decision that the time to fulfill your dream is now, and then do it, with no regrets.  If the only way you’ll get to make your ultimate travel dream come true is to do it on your own, then my advice is, buy that ticket and don’t look back.

Solo travel may not be my favorite way to travel, but I don’t regret a single solo trip I’ve ever taken.  And I know if I had waited around till I had someone to accompany me everywhere I wanted to go, I wouldn’t have been to nearly as many wonderful places and would regret not having made the leap on my own.

park guell photo barcelona

Life is short.  Travel opportunities are all too often fleeting.  It may not be too long before your own life gets in the way.

So if you’ve got a travel dream in mind and you can venture out alone now, do it.  Make your dreams happen, and enjoy every minute of it.  You deserve nothing less.

Have you traveled solo?  What are your thoughts on this type of trip?  Where is your ultimate bucket list destination?

Guatemala: First Impressions

It’s been less than a week since I got back from my first trip of the year, and although it’s grey, rainy, and pretty gloomy outside, nothing can dim my memories of one of my new favorite places on the planet: Guatemala.

I fell hard for this small country tucked away in Central America (like many others before me).  I went to Guatemala with very few expectations, willing to open myself up to what I found there and let it surprise me.

And it did, in the best way possible.  I loved Guatemala.  I am now a convert, evangelizing to everyone I see that they must visit this astounding country for themselves.

So, what’s so incredible about Guatemala?  Why do I think everyone should be rushing to book a ticket there, and explore it from top to bottom?

I’ll be putting together some more detailed posts over the next few weeks about my time in Guatemala; what I saw, what I did, and what I ate (obviously).  For now, here are some of my first impressions of Guatemala, along with photos to illustrate its beauty and charm far better than my words ever could.

Guatemala docks

My First Impressions of Guatemala

  • It’s Beautiful. This is the one observation that forces itself on you as you travel around Guatemala: it’s simply one of the most stunning locations I’ve ever experienced. It’s a visual feast.  I’ve seen incredible natural beauty in places like Italy, South Africa, Thailand, Greece, and Iceland, but I think Guatemala can stand shoulder-to-shoulder with any of them.  Elaborate colonial architecture; yellow buildings reflecting the sun’s rays till they appear almost blinding; a lake ringed with volcanoes; water views perfectly framed with trees and flowers.  Yes, Guatemala is beautiful.  My photos don’t really do it justice; you have to see it for yourself to really understand.

Guatemala antigua arch

  • It’s Full of Friendly and Happy People. Obviously this is a broad generalization, but I don’t think I met a single person in Guatemala who was really unfriendly (well, maybe one or two boat captains, but I’ll overlook that), and the overall vibe of the places we visited was very friendly, welcoming, and happy.  As we traveled through small towns around Lake Atitlan, children would scamper up to us and say, “Hola!,” people would smile and nod at us in the streets, and everyone seemed to go out of their way to be helpful.  Moreover, I was very impressed by how generally happy the Guatemalans we encountered seemed to be; there’s a friendly, relaxed vibe in the country that I really appreciated.  Especially given the turmoil and sometimes horror of Guatemalan history as recently as a few decades ago, this warm, cheerful attitude from so many people we encountered really made an impression on me.

Guatemala santiago view

  • It Helps A Lot to Speak Spanish (or have a friend who does). You can get by in Guatemala without any Spanish, at least for a few days, but it really does help to know at least a little.  I was incredibly fortunate to be traveling with a friend who had mastered the basics and spending lots of time with other friends who live in the country and are fluent Spanish speakers.  This not only helped us communicate more effectively, but opened up whole new worlds to us via their translation of conversations we would have otherwise missed.  Takeaway: I need to get myself to a Spanish class asap!

 

  • The Food Isn’t Bad! I know this doesn’t sound like a ringing endorsement, but when we arrived in Guatemala, our friends immediately warned us that “the food’s not the thing here.”  Still, we had an outstanding dinner in Antigua (more details to come), I enjoyed a scrumptious cheesecake/brownie combination dessert in Panajachel, and the taco dinner our friends prepared with food from the local market was divine.  And I had avocado and/or guacamole at just about every meal.  I need to keep this tradition going; new life goal!

Guatemala club ven aca

  • Lake Atitlan is Stunning, but Not to Be Underestimated. Ah, Lake Atitlan.  When I try to describe the beauty of Guatemala, this is what I’m thinking of: this stunning, deep blue lake surrounded by volcanoes and framed with flowers.  It’s one of the most incredible landscapes I’ve ever had the privilege to see.  But, on our boat ride from Santiago to another town along the shore, we encountered rough winds and enormous swells while out on the sea in our small motorboat.  It wasn’t a fun ride (the longest forty minutes of my life, which featured people falling over backwards, getting hit by waves in the face, throwing up, and even crying).  I have never been more happy to step foot on dry land again as I was when I got off that boat.  However, all our other boat trips went relatively smoothly (at least in comparison), and there is something undeniably fun about bouncing over waves with a view of cloud-ringed volcanoes ahead of you.  Just be aware that, if you see whitecaps breaking on the water, it may be a rough ride.

 

At the end of the day, even bumpy boat rides couldn’t sour me on Guatemala.  I’ll tell you what I’m telling everyone else I encounter these days: go.  Go as soon as possible, and stay as long as you can.  You won’t regret it.

 

Have you been to Guatemala?  What did you think of it?  Is it a place you’d add to your travel plans?

 

A Very Chill To-Do List for Guatemala

Guatemala guide   Mexico blue water

I can’t believe it, but my trip to Guatemala is only four days away!  Where does the time go?!?

This adventure has snuck up on me a bit, so I’ve been doing some reading these last few days to try to figure out what fun things I may want to see, do, and of course eat in Antigua and Lake Atitlan.  I’m still very open to ideas on all fronts, but I’ve also made the decision that this is going to be a different kind of trip for me: a chilled-out one.

You see, I have a tendency to over-plan my travels.  Usually, long before I touch down in a destination, I have a pretty good idea of what my trip will entail: hotels booked, activities planned, restaurants and even cafes picked out.  Yes, I’m that girl when I travel.  And come to think of it, I’m that girl in most areas of my life.  I’m a planner.  I like order and structure.  It’s an inherent part of who I am.

But this time, I’d like to leave room to be a bit more spontaneous and relaxed.  I have a few things in mind I would really like to see and do in Guatemala, but especially since this trip will be so brief, I want the main focus to be on relaxing, chilling out, taking in the beauty of my surroundings, all while eating, drinking, and having fun with friends.

Here’s my (very chill) to-do list for Guatemala so far.  Anything I’ve left out?

  • Walk around Antigua and admire the beautiful architecture and pastel buildings.
  • Hike somewhere that isn’t super-challenging but provides great views at the top.
  • Float in an infinity pool.
  • Eat Guatemalan food.
  • Visit a few different towns around Lake Atitlan, hopefully by boat (because I love boats!)
  • Have a fantastic meal in Antigua.
  • Get a massage at our hotel spa in Panajachel.
  • Visit the handicraft markets in Panajachel, and hopefully come away with a cool local souvenir.
  • Lie in a hammock and look at the lake while drinking something tropical and fruity.

I’ll let you know how much of this I accomplish—but I think if I hit even a few of these items, I’ll have a pretty great trip!

And of course I’ll be posting a blog or two about my Guatemala adventure when I return, but in the meantime, you can follow my twitter account at @perpetualvoyage for some real-time photos and updates (wifi situation permitting, of course!)

Guatemala, here I come!

Have you been to Guatemala?  Is it on your list?  Any other (chill) things I should do while I’m there?

Five Reasons to Do A Wine Tour in South Africa (Even if You Don’t Love Wine)

I promised recently that I would write more about one of my best trips and favorite countries: South Africa.  It’s been two years since my visit (yikes, where does the time go!?!) and while some memories have faded a bit, there are a number of experiences from my all-too-brief time there that I still remember fondly.  Top of the list?  The day I spent touring vineyards in Cape Town’s surrounding wine country.

And here’s the kicker: I don’t even like wine that much!  I’m not a big drinker to begin with, and if I’m going to order something in a bar it’s generally of the cocktail variety.  I’ll drink wine when it’s what’s available, or to be polite if someone offers it to me, but I’ve never really been a huge lover of the grape.

That said, in the past few years I’ve done wine tastings in California, Seattle, and of course, South Africa.  I’ve enjoyed them all, and now, wine tasting tours are often on my to-do list anytime I visit someplace that’s known for its vino.

So what’s to love about a day-long wine tour if wine isn’t really your thing?  Read on:

south africa winery bottles

Five Reasons to Do A Wine Tour in South Africa Even if You Don’t Love Wine:

  • The views. Wine country tends to be pretty in most parts of the world, but South Africa’s wine country blew the rest of the competition out of the water.  Some of the most stunning vistas I’d ever seen–green rolling hills, rows of trees, mountains, azure blue skies—made for such a visual feast that the wine and food I consumed were almost secondary.  (At one point, while the rest of my tour group stayed inside trying another bottle, I snuck outside to stare at the glorious panorama around me, dotted with more shades of green than I had imagined possible).  The views alone were honestly worth the trip.

south africa wine country   south africa wine country panorama

  • The food. The wine tour I booked took us to four different towns and vineyards, including the legendary Stellenbosch.  At one location we hit up mid-day, lunch was included with our wine at a charming restaurant with another to-die-for view outside.  We had our choice from the restaurant’s menu, and I opted for bobotie, a  South African meat pie-type dish with a topping made from custard.  Sounds a bit odd, but it was really quite delicious, and a great opportunity to try some local food as I sampled the local drinks.

 

  • The people. I traveled solo to South Africa, and most of the time that was fine—but by mid-week, I was ready to re-connect with fellow travelers and meet some new people.  Our tour group was really fun; it included some visitors from around Europe but also, a big group of college students from Australia who were spending their winter break road-tripping around Africa (seriously, why wasn’t I savvy enough to know this could be done back during my college days?  I never even backpacked through Europe!)  The geographic diversity of our tour made for a lot of fun conversations about life in our respective countries, and what else people had seen and done in Africa (I have to get to Victoria Falls someday).  Plus our guide, a native South African, was very friendly, as were all the vineyard owners and staff we met.  It was a perfect crowd to share such a special experience.

 south africa wine tasting sign

  • They sell other things besides wine! Yep, although many in our tour took home bottles of wine as souvenirs, the vineyards we visited sold other things as well.  The first place we hit had a lovely bread and cheese collection, all available for purchase.  And to my delight, I was able to find some high-class chocolate bars for sale too!

 

  • The whole experience is really something special. Again, I don’t love wine, but I really have grown to enjoy wine tastings.  The ceremony of pouring, swirling, learning where the grapes originate from and why the glass before me tastes as it does, and hearing from experts about the passion they’ve dedicated their life’s work to is really interesting, and something I think everyone should get to enjoy at least once.

 

So next time you find yourself in wine country, be sure to get out and spend a day seeing and tasting it…especially if you’re lucky enough to be in the Cape Winelands!

 

Do you love wine tastings?  Have you been to Cape Town and its wine country?  Any other great wine tasting regions you recommend?

A Love Letter to Eastern Europe

Dear Eastern Europe, *

Hello, old friend.  I know It’s been a while, but you’ve been on my mind quite a bit lately.

It started when I began thinking ahead to my summer vacation, and made the decision that this was the year I was finally going to fulfill my long-held dream of visiting Slovenia.  I spent hours researching and was amazed at just how much there is to do in that tiny country alone.  But why am I so surprised?  You never fail to amaze, and you are full of so many wonderful secret destinations that I could spend a lifetime exploring you and never run out of things to see and experience.

You know you’ll always hold a special place in my heart for one particular reason:  you were the first place I ever lived abroad.  My year in Praha taught me so much; not just about the city but about how to survive, and perhaps even thrive, in a totally foreign environment so different from the one I was used to.  It was immersion and sometimes a bit of a trial by fire, but we made it through together.

And every now and then, I realize how much I miss you.

Praha old town square

I miss your beautiful cobbled streets and old towns that give a glimpse into what life was like centuries ago.  I miss your pastel houses glowing in the spring sunlight.  I miss the stunning architecture of Old Town Square in Praha and Rynek Glowny in Krakow.  I miss the imposing red-domed Parliament building that dominates the Budapest skyline.

Budapest parliament

I miss your cafes. I miss being able to walk into Kavarna Slavia and use my handful of Czech words to order a horka cokolada, then spend the afternoon sipping it while reading my book and gazing at the Vltava River just outside the window.  I miss going to Café Louvre with my students and whiling away hours talking about life, and travel, and anything that struck our fancy (all in the name of English language practice, of course).

I miss weekend road trips to Budapest, seeing the city in fall, winter, and finally spring.  I miss Café Gerbaud and its gorgeous fin-de-siecle interior, and sitting inside our outside on the patio with my friends devouring chocolate cake and marveling at how lucky we were to be in this beautiful place together.

Budapest cafe gerbaud

I miss living in a place so full of history, both good and bad.  I miss walking across Wenceslas Square in the course of my daily commute and contemplating all the earth-shaking events of the twentieth century that had transpired over the cobblestones beneath my feet:  the Nazi invasion during World War Two; the arrival of Soviet and Warsaw Pact tanks crushing the Prague Spring rebellion in 1968; and of course, the peaceful transformation of the Velvet Revolution in 1989, when your citizens finally rose up and seized a brighter future for themselves, showing the rest of the world that it can indeed be done.

I miss all these things; everything that makes up your unique essence.  There is nowhere else in the world like you.

But never fear, Eastern Europe; we aren’t done yet.  Our journey will continue.  As I flip through my new guidebook I feel almost overwhelmed by how much of you I have yet to experience and all the places I still want to see.  This summer it will be Slovenia and Croatia: Ljubljana, Lake Bled, Zagreb, the Plitvice waterfalls, and whatever else I can fit in.  And I will return to see even more in future visits:  Tallin’s Old Town, Riga’s art nouveau architecture, the Bay of Kotor in Montenegro, Lake Ohrid in Macedonia.  And of course, I will finally make it to Russia (though that’s a subject for a different letter altogether).

I know I’ve been off exploring other corners of the planet lately—South Africa, Thailand, Argentina, Israel—and you may have felt a bit neglected by me in recent years.  But rest assured, I have not forgotten you.  You are under my skin, part of my spirit, and I have no doubt you will be a lifelong obsession for me.

Until we meet again—thank you.

XOXO,

Melissa

*I know that the Czech Republic/Hungary/Poland etc are more properly classified as Central Europe, but I’m using the generic “Eastern” title for this post to encompass the whole region.

Have you been to Eastern Europe?  What are your favorite places there?  Is there any region of the world that keeps calling you back?

Oh, the Places I’ll Go! (In 2016)

Happy Sunday!  I’m sitting at my computer typing while watching the first real snowfall of the season fall softly outside my window.  It’s a picture-postcard kind of afternoon (even if the snow is pretty minimal, which I don’t mind as I have plans later on today I’d like to be able to keep!)  Anyway, it feels like a perfect setting for contemplation and looking ahead to what’s in store in the new year.

And for me, as always, that means travel—hopefully lots of it!

I’m still firming up my 2016 travel plans, but I’m excited to be able to share at least the broad strokes of what I hope to see and do this year.  Here’s my travel plan/wishlist, so far….

 London trafalgar square

The Places I’ll Go in 2016

The Big Trips

Guatemala: My first trip is one I’ve already shared on this blog: I’m going to Guatemala next month!  It’ll be my first visit to the country, and I’ll be spending most of my time around the stunning-looking Late Atitlan, with a brief stopover to check out Antigua as well.  I can’t wait!

Praha vltava river

Central Europe and the Balkans: I lived in Europe for two years, and every time I’m there, I realize how much I miss it and how much I need to go back for an extended period to see new places and revisit old ones.  So this summer, I’m planning a European vacation.  The main focus of my trip will be Slovenia, which I’ve wanted to visit for as long as I can recall, as well as a quick pop into next-door-neighbor Croatia to see Zagreb and the Plitvice waterfalls.  I’m also planning to spend a few days in London to see my family there and get reacquainted with one of my favorite cities, where I was lucky enough to live for a year during graduate school.  But of course, once you’re in Europe it’s incredibly tempting to tack more onto your visit, since everything is so close (relative to America anyway) and Easyjet can hop you around the continent for next to nothing.  So I’m seriously considering extending my trip a few days and taking in another city in a new country: Riga?  Estonia?  Belgrade?  Suggestions welcome!

Bali: This is the really big trip I’ve been dreaming about for ages and am determined to make happen this year.  I have a milestone birthday coming up in December, which I firmly believe calls for an epic voyage.  So I’m going to spend a week or so in Bali, chilling out on beaches, exploring green rice paddies, taking yoga classes, getting endless massages, and eating all the food.  Sounds like a perfect transition into the next phase of my life!

thailand lunch view  thailand massage cookies

The Smaller Adventures

New Orleans: Recently I was catching up with a friend who lives in another part of the country and we were tossing around ideas for a girlfriends’ getaway.  My idea—New Orleans!  I’ve wanted to visit for ages, it’s a fairly quick flight and can be done in a weekend (the highlights at least), and I’ve heard nothing but good things from everyone who’s been there about how magical the city is.  Great food and jazz around every corner; how can we go wrong?

Portland, Oregon: Another city that’s been on my US list for quite a while.  My best friend and I have a tradition of meeting up every year for a reunion weekend, either at my place in DC or hers in Connecticut.  She really loves Portland and has spent loads of time there, so I suggested we shake things up and move our weekend plans out to the West Coast this fall.  Not sure if it will happen this year or not, but I’m keeping my fingers crossed.

Going Home: While my home now is the DC area, I’ve made plans already to visit my parents in Florida several times this year, and also want to do a trip back to Connecticut to see old friends I haven’t caught up with in person in way too long.  Time for an Amtrak road trip!

 

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The Possibilities

This will hopefully be the year I finally fulfill one of my personal and professional goals: international work travel.  I don’t know anything for sure yet, but there is a pretty good chance I’ll get to visit some fairly exotic destinations for my job this year—including potentially East Africa.  If so, I’ll definitely make sure to tack on a few vacation days to be able to take in a part of the world I’ve never been to and have long wanted to experience.  More to come on this as things develop, but I’m excited by the idea of exploring some completely new-to-me corners of the planet.

 

Been to any of these places?  Suggestions to offer?  What exciting places will you go in 2016?