Monthly Archive: January 2018

Some Thoughts on Sh*thole Countries

View of Lake Atitlan, Guatemala

 

By now, everyone has heard that last week the President of the United States wrote off an entire continent, plus a few other places around the globe, as “sh*tholes.”  Forgive the clickbait-y title, because we really need to talk about this.

It shouldn’t surprise anyone that a crass, ignorant man who prides himself on these qualities would make a statement like this.   Nothing shocking there, really.

As distressing as the use of these words is, what concerns me even more is the fact that I can imagine many of POTUS’s supporters nodding along with his statement, thinking to themselves that all the criticism he’s receiving is unfair, because after all, “those places are sh*holes.  He’s just telling the truth!”  Umm-hmm.

I would venture to guess that approximately 95 percent of those same individuals have never traveled to Africa, Haiti, or any other such countries.  In fact, a majority of them likely don’t possess passports and haven’t traveled outside of the U.S., or even their home states.  And therein lies at least part of the problem.

I am NOT saying that lack of world travel automatically makes a person ignorant, nor that all travelers are enlightened, wonderful specimens of humanity.  Neither of these things are true.  And often, people who would love to travel the world can’t realistically afford to do so, through no fault of their own.

But the thing is, you can’t fully absorb what you don’t experience.  You can’t really understand what life is like for people you don’t meet.  And you can’t make sweeping statements about the places they call home if you don’t spend some time trying to get to know them and understand the lives they live and the challenges they face.

View of a mist-covered mountain outside Nairobi

Most of my travels have been in Europe and other similar parts of the world, but I have visited, and loved, some of those same places that were so callously derided with an offhand piece of gutter language as being worthless.  I’ve met wonderful people in Uganda, marveled at the natural beauty of the plains of Kenya, sweltered in 100 degree heat in a small town in Cambodia, shopped at a market in Nairobi, and been taken to the beach by precocious, charming children in Guatemala.  I’ve stepped out of my zone of the familiar a bit each time, and while I still have so, so much to learn about the world, the one thing I can state unequivocally is that it is full of good people, willing to share kindness with strangers while trying to make the best life for themselves and their families that they can.

Travel matters because it connects people.  It breaks down barriers and stereotypes.  It makes people and places real to us in a way that we can’t get simply by watching sensationalist reports on the nightly news, whose subtext is nearly always that everything is terrible and no one is to be trusted.  But despite all its challenges, that’s truly not the world I know.

So travel as far and as wide as you can.  Go someplace you’ve never been; meet people whose lives are different than yours; try to understand their story and their struggle.

And for the love of God, let’s all, at the very least, vow not to insult places we’ve never been.

Travel Resolutions: 2018 Edition

New year, new me, right?  Well, I’m still working on that second part, but happily I am on my way.  Within a few months, I hope to be back to full health and able to pick up on globetrotting around the world once again!

Last month I shared some of my tentative travel plans for the next year.  In a similar spirit, I’d like to now offer my 2018 travel resolutions—things I want to do, or continue, or get better at, all somehow relating to my life as a traveler.  Here goes:

Melissa’s 2018 Travel Resolutions

  1. See more of South America. I have one of those scratch-off world maps hanging on my wall that shows how many parts of the globe you’ve visited.  And I must admit, mine has a glaring empty corner so far: South America.  I’ve only briefly been to Buenos Aires, which was fantastic but hardly representative of an entire vast, diverse continent.  Luckily Argentina is big so my map doesn’t look quite as embarrassing as it might otherwise, but still.  I’ve been longing to visit Chile and Brazil for ages, and this year I plan to make it happen and begin to fill in the gaps in my South American experience.
  2. Finally make it to Russia! I was going to do this last year, but life intervened. Well, suck it, life, because this year I am going to Russia and nothing will stand in my way!  (Fingers crossed, of course.  Yes, I’m always paranoid when I make pronouncements like that…maybe “be more confident” and “worry less” need to go on my general resolution list.  Anyway…)  I sincerely hope that 2018 is finally the year I set eyes on St. Petersburg and absorb everything this magical-looking city has to offer.
  3. Spend time in England with my family. My mom is from England, so I have a large extended family spread throughout the southern part of the country (and a few who’ve moved to Ireland, France, and Australia!) I love London and try to fit it into any trip to Europe; I was last there in 2016 just before visiting Slovenia and Croatia.  But my London trips always last just a few days and I barely have time to reconnect with family and pop into the British Museum before it’s time to leave again.  I’m hoping to carve out more time for England and visiting family this year, hopefully outside of London too.  I’d love to spend a week in the country, with a few days in London and a few visiting family elsewhere (Bath is most likely, as my aunt, uncle, and cousin all reside there).  Not exactly sure if I’ll do a stand-alone trip to the UK or add extra time to another trip, but “more time with family in England” is definitely high on my list this year.
  4. Add on a destination to a work trip. I should be doing some more international work travel this year, so it may be feasible to tack on a quick trip to a nearby country/island.  We shall see….but I have quite a few new countries I’d like to seize the opportunity to visit with a few extra vacation days!
  5. Visit a new U.S. city. While my travels are largely international, for the past few years I’ve tried to visit at least one new U.S. city. Seattle in 2015, Portland in 2016, and I guess Philadelphia sort of counted in 2017 as I hadn’t been there in 12 years.  This year, New Orleans is on my wish list, but a few other places are calling my name as well….
  6. Look into carbon offsets. I meant to start doing this last year, but since I didn’t fly very much it didn’t end up happening (I guess one positive to my being mostly homebound is that it was a slight boon to our environment?)  But this year I definitely plan to explore offsetting the environmental impacts of my long flights, as well as trying to combine trips together when possible to avoid lots of separate plane rides.
  7. Take advantage of NYC work trips to eat all the food. I get to travel to NYC a few times a year for my job.  While I like the work part of these trips, I’ve never been enamored of the Big Apple.  However, not only do I enjoy seeing friends and family when I go, I must admit that I love the NYC food scene!  I don’t believe I’ve ever had a bad meal there (credit goes to those same friends and family who bring me to awesome places to dine).  Not only that, but NYC does desserts and sweets very well.  I really want to check out City Bakery for its delicious-looking hot chocolate (I’m a connoisseur so my hot chocolate standards are high, but this place does seem amazing).  And apparently there’s also a trendy new place that serves edible cookie dough?!  Yep, I’m there.
  8. Do a birthday yoga retreat. I’ve been toying with the idea of a yoga retreat in Costa Rica for a while, and I think my birthday next December will be a perfect time to do it.  This will give me all year to save and plan, and provide a lovely way to end what will hopefully be a much better year for me than the last.  See a new country AND do yoga, swim, and get massages all day long…sounds pretty much like heaven to me.
  9. Figure out how to travel hack better. See number 6—I meant to do this last year but it ended up not mattering much since I traveled so little.  Time to get on the ball now.  Maybe a new credit card to earn miles and privileges is the way to go?  In any case, I need to ensure I’m enrolled in all the appropriate airline miles programs (hangs head in shame…I am the worst-hacking traveler ever, and I know it).  Here’s to doing better in 2018!
  10. Keep planning and saving for new adventures in 2019. As much as I hope to travel this year, I want to do just as much, if not more, exploring in 2019!  So I want to be sure to steadily save money and keep my eye on my 2019 travel goals, especially as my big 2018 trips should mostly wind down at the end of summer.  New Zealand? Bali?  Russia and Mongolia?  It’s all on the table…stay tuned for more news this time next year.  In the meantime, having new adventures on both the intermediate and more distant horizons is always a balm for my soul.

I could probably keep going, but ten resolutions seems like plenty, wouldn’t you say?  I like to be ambitious, but best to keep all of these resolves at least somewhat grounded in reality.  If I achieve even a fraction of what I’ve put on this list, I think I’ll have a pretty fantastic travel year!

(Oh, and also, I’m going to read more—I finished 18 books last year, which is okay, but I’m hoping to hit 25 this year.  Not strictly travel related, but I wanted to toss that in there to help hold myself accountable.)

Here’s to a year of adventures, exploration, and happiness ahead!  With as many beaches and European cafes tossed into the mix as possible….

 

Do you make travel resolutions? What are you hoping to achieve in 2018?